Saturday, December 3, 2011

Updates from up above.

Looking up into the skies, wishing, wanting and worrying about finding something other than a glimmering star or wandering plane; I realize that I'm not alone.

Sometimes we find ourselves, looking inward for answers and receiving answers far more fetched than we intended them to be. Yet, we muster up the power and energy from within to keep on trucking.
The friendster union would be happy to hear me say - Keep on trucking, but occasionally I want to halt and slam on the brakes, look over my shoulder and see if any thing is behind me...

I then realize it's not what's behind me or in the past that I'm actually looking for, it's the answers to my questions.
Questions I just haven't had answered.

I suppose I'm really the only one who can answer these questions.

Or am I?

In a meditation I find myself in a field with a beautiful being who seems to be a male;
long blonde hair, glistening white skin and pointed ears.
We embrace, and I feel love flood my entire being and body,
my eyes shift to a forest not far from where we stand in this field;
there fly fairies, and dance small beautiful people singing songs.
Animals peruse the land and forest and the skies glisten with a starry night.

Any questions asked are all mentally and answered telepathically.
Where am I supposed to be?
Why am I here?
Is this a vision?

My new love being friend speaks his name,
in which I cannot remember at this time; 
but I know his face.
I see a silver shaped flying craft, and he has to leave right as I get comfortable with where I'm at,
who I'm with and the place we had met in.
And in this moment, I realize...I will see him again.


I wish and want to see his face once more and I hope for more answers.
Answers in which only I can dissect and figure out what they really mean.

Energy updates, and astrological predictions remain in my box of electronic emails,
open eyes, hands and a heart remain in my life.

I suppose what I'm saying is, I feel something spectacular coming,
a change of changes,
and am I ready?

Ready as I'll ever be.


- J-

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Herbs for your health.

An herb is a plant that is valued for flavor, scent, medicinal or other qualities. Herbs are used in cooking, as medicines, and for spiritual purposes. 


Today's Herb of the day: is Basil.





Basil is often used therapeutically for arthritis, anxiety, colds, depression, stress, respiratory challenges, and stomach aches. Basil has expectorant and calmative properties to it. Basil is great for expelling mucous from the body, therefore it is often used when one may have some chest congestion or nasal congestion. As an expectorant, it will help to rid this waste from the body and cleanse it. As a calmative, basil helps to ease and calm the senses - so it is great when one is feeling anxiety, stress or needs some calming. It is also great for soothing a weary mind or an upset stomach. 

Here are some ways to enjoy basil:
1) Eat it - throw it in salads, make a pesto, put it in foods! mmmm. basil!


2) Drink it - make a basil tea/infusion either by adding 3 teaspoons of dried basil to 1 cup of boiling water and let it sit (the longer you let it sit the stronger) or about 1 cup of fresh basil into 1 cup of boiling water and let it sit. Remember to boil the water and then remove from flame and then add the basil and let sit. Adding honey, or stevia will sweeten this basil tea up a notch.


3) For nasal congestion, boil a pot of water and add some essential oil of basil to the pot (about 7 drops) and let your head hang over the pot. Breathe in this aromatic vapor and feel the congestion melt away.4) For tired feet, soak 2 cups of fresh basil in 2 liters of water - allow to sit, then slip tired feet into the mixture and enjoy. Feel rejuvenated and also enjoy the antibacterial quality of basil as it cleanses the feet of any germs.


Basil for today folks.
Namaste.



Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Ginger and it's amazing benefits.

Ginger is an ancient treasured spice. For thousands of years, Asians have employed ginger not only as a pungent spice, but also as a medicine for stomachache, diarrhea, and nausea. Did you know that research also suggests ginger can be used for many other ailments? Take a look!
Migraines: ginger may have the ability to stop prostagldins from causing pain and inflammation in blood vessels.
Ovarian Cancer: ginger powder may induce death in ovarian cancer cells.
Colon Cancer: ginger may slow the growth of colorectal cancer cells. Diabetic Nephropathy: ginger may decrease the incidence of diabetic nephropathy (kidney damage).
Pain and Inflammation: ginger reduces your synthesis of prostaglandins and thromboxanes, which would otherwise cause pain, inflammation and blood clotting.
Tips and Tricks:
Fresh ginger root looks a bit strange in the grocery store. It is usually found next to the garlic or shallots. If the ginger is really fresh you should be able to scrape off the skin with a spoon. Otherwise, you will have to slice the skin off with a knife to uncover the yellow flesh.
If you have never tried fresh ginger, a great way to introduce it into your diet is to add a teaspoon of grated or chopped ginger to a stir-fry with some garlic and onions.
Are you feeling a bit of heartburn or slightly nauseous? Try taking 1, 1-inch piece of ginger and letting it steep in some boiling water for 15 minutes to make a ginger tea. You could also add a 1-inch piece to your favourite green or white or herbal tea to add a bit of spice!

Carrot Ginger Dressing

This dressing will make any salad taste delicious with the perfect balance of sweet to a little bit of zing. It is also delicious over steamed vegetables and brown rice. 
Makes approximately 1 cup
Ingredients:
1 large carrot
1-inch piece peeled ginger (about 1 tsp)
1 small shallot
4 Tbsp rice vinegar
1 Tbsp honey
1/2 cup olive oil/ flax oil/ or hemp oil
Puree carrot, ginger, and shallots in a food processor. Add the vinegar and honey. Blend very well. Add oil in two batches. Blend. Store in refrigerator.
References:
1.             Phanuef H. (2005) Herbs Demystified: A Scientist Explains How the Most Common Herbal Remedies Really Work. New York: Marlow & Company.
2.             Kloss J. (2008) Healthful Herbs from Back to Eden. East Sussex: Ivy Press.

Friday, June 3, 2011

The importance of loving one's self.

We spend so much time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, searching, yearning for that special love. Feeling empty and lost without it. Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. In all reality,things don't work like that. 


It is through loving one's self that love is attracted. What does loving yourself mean?
Basically, Loving one's self is having self respect and love in which is sharable with others in your life.
When you expect love in your life from external sources, usually something different happens,whether it be a misfire, a miscommunication or a miss altogether. It is here in this circumstance in where we find ourselves with an empty void, not filled with the love we so desired and feeling worse; all because we didn't love ourselves first.


Here are a couple of simple tips to help your SELF along with this process,



  • The way you treat yourself, and see yourself, is the way others will treat you and see you.
  • Treat others as you'd like to be treated, WITH LOVE AND RESPECT!
  • Bring about kindness and good will by performing random acts of kindness
  • Forgive yourself when necessary; when you're feeling you're not worthy of love.
  •  Post affirmations: Such as "I am worthy of love." "I love myself today and everyday."
  • Let go of past events
  • Think about what you really want in life.
  • Keep a journal or blog
  • Steadily work at and on loving and accepting yourself as you are.
  • Get Started (You become what you think about, act upon and do.)
  • Raise your motives, and aim higherANDDDDDDDDDDDD Finally,
  • HUG YOURSELF!



With these simple steps, loving yourself can make the world an easier place,
and make you easier on the world.
<3


MORE Self Love TIPS:

  • Remember that you are human because sometimes we feel like outcasts or weirdos, but that is just something that makes you unique and to be human is to be imperfect.
  • Here's something to try saying every day. Place it on your mirror. It always helps: "Look in the mirror and what do I see? A handsome boy staring back at me!" "Oh wow!" I thought. Who could that be? [smile and say] "Oh! It's most definitely me!"
  • Make a list of the things you could love about yourself, ie: things you've done that if you saw someone else do them, you would love them. For instance, if you scored more in basketball, write it down, then eventually you can build up more pros, to help you know why to love yourself (if you're analytical).
  • Practice Metta meditation. It will help you love yourself and others more.
  • Just don't become vain, vanity is not loving yourself, as you love others.
  • Do what you enjoy. Go out somewhere, perhaps, with someone. Or stay at home, prepare yourself a nice meal and settle down with a good book in front of a cozy fire, a fan or air conditioner.
  • Every time you realize a negative emotion, pause and feel it; then thank yourself for feeling it, accepting it. Emotions are nothing more than internal experiences which contribute to who we are. Accepting problems (negative things) as opportunities (good things) in another perspective can yield great results (problem solving).
  • Mirrors will be your friend in this process. Seeing yourself as lovely and worthy of love is extremely important. Pick a favorite characteristic about yourself, and determine what exactly you don't like about yourself. Then proceed to fix these imperfections.
  • Never EVER EVER EVER expect to be like someone else 100%. Use your life to build a mysterious and appealing YOU. Not a remake of someone else which turns people away. Write a diary of your exciting and unique life!
  • Listen carefully to the messages you are sending for yourself. Turn off negative messages or turn them into a positive messages.
  • Treat yourself like the most loving parent would


WARNINGS:

  • Misery loves company, so do not hang-around unhappy, frowning and grouchy people."
  • Loving oneself is different from self-adoration or narcissism, which are negative and a huge turn off to others as they involve placing oneself above others.
  • Loving yourself does not mean grabbing all of the attention and becoming selfish. It is actually a golden confidence that whispers, I know when it is my time to shine and I can become selfless.
  • Remember The best way to love yourself is to trust who YOU are, YOU have all the answers for you.
Namaste.



Wednesday, June 1, 2011

What is a wounded Healer?

Wounded healer is an archetypal dynamic that psychologist Carl Jung used to describe a phenomenon that may take place in the relationship between analyst and analysand: 'Jung...warned of its dangers as well as its necessity'.
(Archetype:is a universally understood symbol or pattern of behavior, a prototype upon which others are copied, patterned, or emulated.)
In Greek mythology, the centaur 'Chiron was known as the "Wounded Healer" because he was poisoned by one of Hercules's arrows' by dropping it on himself. Unfortunately, 'Chiron was unable to heal himself and so suffered the pain of an incurable wound'.
It is also possible that Jung derives the term "wounded healer" from the ancient Greek legend of Asclepius, a physician who in identification of his own wounds creates a sanctuary atEpidaurus in order to treat others. By contrast, the figure of 'Apollo Medicus could be said to subvert the ancient folkloric motif known in Jungian discourse as the "wounded healer": the physician whose "own suffering and vulnerability...contribute crucially to the capacity to heal"'
Practial Reasoning:
The following is an example of the "wounded healer phenomena" between a analyst and his/her analysand:
  • The analyst, through the nature of his profession is consciously aware of his own personal wounds. However, these wounds may be activated in certain situations, especially if his analysand's wounds are similar to his own. (This can be the basis of countertransference).
  • In the meantime, the wounded analysand "inner healer" is unconscious to him, but potentially available.
  • The analysand's wounds activate those of the analyst. The analyst realizes what is taking place, and either consciously or unconsciously passes this awareness back to his analysand.
  • In this way, an unconscious relationship takes place between analyst and Client.
 This type of depth psychology can be potentially dangerous, because the analyst is vulnerable to being infected by his analysand's wounds, or having his or her wounds reopened. Also, the analyst must have an ongoing relationship with the unconscious, otherwise he or she could identify with the "healer archetype", and create an inflated ego.

Keeping an open heart, and on going relationship with consciousness, being a wounded healer has helped me personally grow closer to the universal energy of all that is, to myself and to humanity itself as a whole. I work very hard every day with my inner guidance system, and open heart to keep my ego at bay. It is a constant work in progress.
 That said, I am thankful to experience and have experienced everything in my life, wounds, scars, ups and downs, for without it; I would be incomplete.


Namaste.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Guided Meditation and It's Benefits!

Stress is one of the leading causes of physical and emotional breakdown in people and so managing this stress can have a considerable impact on our health and well being. The benefits gained when practicing guided meditation are those that are barely noticeable, happening silently in your subconscious mind with no conscious knowledge. In order to better understand how guided meditation will aid your health, you need to understand some basic terminology and the first is Homeostasis. This term refers to the process of your various physiological systems collaborating to properly manage the peak environment for your internal system functionality. In other words, this is your body doing its best to achieve a balance.
Everyone’s body is engineered with eleven main organ systems. Let us look at those organ structures to help you understand better the intricacies of this meditative course of action.

• Integumentary – (epidermis or skin);
• Skeletal;
• Muscular;
• Nervous;
• Endocrine – [hormones];
• Circulatory;
• Lymphatic – [disease immunity];
• Respiratory;
• Digestive;
• Urinary;
• Reproductive.


For each second that you are alive, these systems are continuously at work, scrutinizing your body and constantly making modifications to every one of these systems.
The Astounding Human Body
As a matter of practicality, when we consume food, the body is compelled to produce particular enzymes and concentrate the flow of blood so that digestion may occur. When you do aerobic exercise, your body needs to regulate your body temperature to prevent you from overheating. When you draw blood because of an accident of some kind, a number of your systems join forces to mend the spot you injured and to defend against any infection. The obvious instances are the most common to contemplate.
However, think about your body under stress. When you are in a stressful situation there is no physical display of damage – at least not one that can be easily spotted like a gash or bruising. Focus your mind’s eye on a potential deadline, monetary crisis or personal strife; you know this absolutely influences your functionality. You feel your body compensating by becoming physically exhausted or some other response. The body is continuous in its monitoring and modifies to any number of influential reactions.
The process of Homeostasis is continuously vigilant in an attempt to aid in maintaining a balance.
Other terms you need to understand have to do with your autonomic nervous system. They are partitioned into two divides – the sympathetic and parasympathetic. In layman’s terms, it means you are in one or another of “Fight or Flight” form or “Rest and Digest” form.
The best analogy to aid in better understanding this dates back to prehistoric time. Early man needed to stand and fight to kill in order to eat or Run [Flight] from the dangerous animal so mealtime was not suddenly reversed! Adrenalin surged in his system regardless of his choice. That is existing in the sympathetic nervous system.
When things finally calmed down, he was able to sit quietly in his habitat, stirring the fire with his spear for some enjoyment. He was able to unwind. He was not a slave to an employer, there were no ringing telephones, bill collectors and he was able to lay back and relax. This is the parasympathetic form of existence.
The world we exist in today is downright frantic in comparison – so many of us settling into “go mode”. Stress has become a common occurrence. How often do you hear yourself or others complain of needing a holiday; momentarily seeing yourself relaxing on a secluded beach with a pineapple full of some exotic cocktail when suddenly you come crashing back to reality. There is no time, no additional money and you have responsibilities! Shame on you for even thinking that way…
However, if you remain in fight or flight form for an extended period of time your body becomes exhausted. There is evidence to prove this fact. When you are under a bombardment of stress, your body is more likely to succumb to illness and ill health – physically and emotionally. It is the simplest thing to get caught up in a downward spin due to excessive stress. It is human nature and a personality trait of those who are susceptible to stress to work even harder though they feel lousy. They will continue to do their job as they would if they were in peak condition, which they are not.
Your performance will suffer, any task you perform is difficult, mistakes are easier to make and in the end, you create even more work. Who reading this has never been there? Working even harder to get the job done even though we are operating at a distinct disadvantage is a common trap. We allow our work to consume us, put in longer hours and sacrifice much enjoyment in our lives. We do this so we can either keep our jobs, or simply have more things we think we need.
The slope you are navigating is covered in ice. When you become this ensnared in your stress, often the only thing that will pull you from your spiral is an illness or health scare of some variety. It is your body’s way of letting you know it needs a breather. No doubt, it is tough, but very true.
Hence, another look at Homeostasis. The body calibrating itself. The balancing of all of life’s influences. There will be occasions when you find it necessary to run around with your hair on fire – often quite exciting times and memorable for their fun and achievement. Nevertheless, what about resting and digesting? [This does not mean unbuckling your belt in front of the television after a big meal!]
At what point do you find the time to flee from the circumstances of your stress and take some time for just you?
When you do find the time for a balance adjustment, understand that it is better in repeated amounts. Finding just short but recurrent reprieves from your stress is critical. Finding the discipline to regularly take a break where you do nothing is giving yourself the gift of opportunity to improve your life and add quality to it.
Meditation is a magnificent method to aid Homeostasis. Guided meditation allows your mind to follow the words to a story, allowing you to disengage for a short period from your average daily routine.
When your mind is being diverted, your body is submitting to relaxation and your eleven systems can concentrate on your health and well being. When you commit to practice, you will only need a minute to calm down toward your curative parasympathetic nervous division.
Certain benefits from meditation will be palpable and instantaneous. You will find your breathing becoming deeper; you will feel less weighted and rejuvenated. However, the secret benefits you derive from meditation work quietly in the shadows of your physiology – longevity and quality health.
Be certain of this, guided meditation is great for a person. Do more than understand that balance is vital to your life – put it into practice. Find ten minutes – three times each day and make a difference in your life that you will feel immediately.

Namaste.

Monday, May 30, 2011

Kids and Massage Therapy


Today's question is, How can massage benefit kids?

Massage for children offers a variety of health benefits. It is human nature to touch as a way of showing love and affection. This touch stimulates the body in positive ways to help it grow and develop. Massage is beneficial at any age but because children are still developing it can be especially helpful for them. Parent-child massage is a wonderful way to bond with your children while offering them health benefits.


Infant Weight Gain


Premature babies often struggle with weight gain. Touch, obtained through gentle massage and cuddling, releases a growth hormone in a premature infant that helps him gain necessary weight and aids development of vital organs and the brain. A study by the Department of Neonatology at the Children's National Medical Center in Washington, D.C. showed that premature infants who were massaged, particularly with kinesthetic stimulation (body stroking and passive movement of the limbs), gained more weight.

Stress and Anxiety Relief


Massage reduces stress hormone levels and blood glucose levels. According to Maria Hernandez-Reif, a researcher at the Touch Research Institute, lower stress hormones not only reduce feelings of anxiety but contribute to a healthier immune system. The immune system fights illnesses by defending the body against toxins, parasites, bacteria, microbes, pathogens and viruses. Due to its relaxing effect, massage has been found to reduce asthma symptoms in children and help them adhere to a sometimes painful diabetes treatment program.

Stimulates Motor Development

Children are developing their motor (movement) skills as they grow. Massage helps ease tension and pain in developing muscles that make motor skills possible. A study by the University of Miami indicates that massage improved motor function in children with Down syndrome, and the Journal of Pediatric Psychology reports that massage improved motor ability in children infected with HIV.

Stimulates Cognitive Development


According to Early Child Development and Care, preschoolers performed better on an IQ test following a 15-minute massage than they did from reading books. The International Journal of Neuroscience reported that massage improved function in the brain, resulting in increased alertness as well as speed and accuracy during math problems. 

See! Massage really can benefit the whole family!


Namaste.